

Latest review for Reaching for Hope
I love this review. That's all. Reaching for Hope: Strategies and support for the partners of transgender people.
May 11, 2023


If everything is so painful, why don't trans people just go back in the closet?
My transmasculine husband Declan periodically re-reads my books and asks me to post entries from them in this blog. Today he asked that I...
May 11, 2023


Trans Ally Tip of the Day: identify gender-neutral restrooms before leaving home
Here's your tip for the day!
May 5, 2023


May 3, 2023


Trans Ally Tip of the Day: use the singular "they"
Here's your tip:
May 1, 2023


Trans Ally Tip of the Day: wear lapel pins!
Here's your tip:
Apr 28, 2023


Celebrating Lesbian Visibility Week!
Stories have the power to change hearts and minds in ways that facts don't. That's why we're focusing on novels with lesbian characters...
Apr 27, 2023


14 things churches can do to stand up for transgender people
In 2018 I wrote What Transgender People Need from Churches. Much of it's still solid, but a lot has changed since then, including the...
Apr 27, 2023


Trans Ally Tip of the Day: Sometimes self-misgendering happens
We started a new thing yesterday! Check it out.
Apr 25, 2023


My pronouns? "I Am"/"Ami"
I've been considering gender a lot over the past few years. Not just because my husband has transitioned/is transitioning. And not just...
Apr 24, 2023




































































































