

Partnering through Transition: Expect Experimentation
The passage below is excerpted from Reaching for Hope: Strategies and support for the partners of transgender people. From the moment...

Every book I write is a work of allegiance and allyship
It's the eve of my debut novel's launch day. Last week I wrote about the path to reaching this point. Declan asked me to share the post...


Partnering through Transition: Routine Activities Might Get Harder
The passage below is excerpted from Reaching for Hope: Strategies and support for the partners of transgender people. Routine Activities...


Sex Can't Fix You
The contemplation below is the entry for Day 41 in my Sex With God devotional. The Dance of Giving and Receiving We all have areas of...


Anytime we have sex, we're having sex with God
People have had very mixed reactions to the title of my devotional on sacred sexuality in a post-purity culture world. Calling it SEX...


The Dance of Giving and Receiving
The contemplation below is the entry for Day 46 in my Sex With God devotional. The Dance of Giving and Receiving Western notions of...


Gender as a Tool of Control
The entry below is an excerpt from Holding on to Hope: Help for friends and family of transgender people. In a Vox article[1],...


And then people began to read it...
Two proud stacks of The Language of Bodies decorated our dining room table when our eldest grandchild and their girlfriend came to hang...

Holding On to Hope is here!
My latest book in the Living in Hope series is finally out! Holding On to Hope is similar in approach to Reaching for Hope, which was...


We need a new word: spouses of trans people are more than just allies
I was a trans ally before my husband came out as transgender. We were allies together, and have been for years, after escaping decades of...