This post is an excerpt from an upcoming devotional for partners of people who are transitioning. Gender transition is a challenging, fearful, joyous experience for the person undertaking it, and it’s a journey which ultimately can only be done by the individual themself. No one else can do it for them. The process can be isolating and alienating, leaving the trans person feeling intensely alone. But here you are. Trying. Not all couples can survive the turbulence which resul

Watching Pray Away can be an intense experience, particularly for those who have experienced the harm of conversion therapy and related ministries. Click here for resources which can help. As the years pass I think increasingly about the role of regret. I regret staying with my kids' dad so long, because of the toxicity our being together produced. I regret working as much as I did, though for many years it kept me sane. And I regret some of the positions I held related to fa