I'm going to say something controversial, so brace yourself: Matthew Vines is right. Don't worry, I'm not stopping there. He's right about just one thing: his position of privilege as a white cisgender gay man is eroding. That's what his article boiled down to. In case you haven't read about the controversy, the New York Times published an opinion piece by well-known gay Christian author Matthew Vines, which claims that use of the term "queer" has threatened the existence of